Usual greeting, ‘Had a good day?’
Usual response, ‘Yes thanks.
Well that’s how it usually goes
isn’t it.
So when The Man asked me that
question today, when he came to meet me as he usually does after work, my
answer wasn’t the usual. Why so I hear you ask, or would if I could actually
hear you.
I’ll tell you
One of the things I do in my day
to day work is to take cervical smears. Yes that’s right, leap up on the
examination couch and let’s get on with it.
Give me a mo and you will see the
connection.
Last week I did a smear on a young
woman who had had the odd problem. And today that result came back. And it was decidedly abnormal. Now as the
smeartaker it is my responsibility to advise my clients of their result. It’s usually a pleasure to contact the client
and pass on results. Not so today. So how do you tell someone bad news, well
not good news at least?
You do it armed with all the relevant
information at your fingertips, which is how I handled it this morning. A good description of what the result is, what
specialist I am referring her to, and what she can expect at her consultation. As important as all that is following her up
after she has had her specialist appointment and treatment.
All in a day’s work for me.
well, if i have to have someone tell me news like that I'd rather it be from someone like you. :-)
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